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JetmamaDiDi wrote:
april6263 wrote:
CEK40 wrote:
Well said April...wish i knew how to start a hastag thing on twitter....i would get fans to send him #holdmyhand ...nothing else just #holdmyhand to show him some support....
Does CEK know?
I don't know how to start one and everyone here that does is in bed...LOL
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april6263 wrote:
CEK40 wrote:
april6263 wrote:
you know we talked about how Meryl is going through alot of life changes and needs time....but so is Maks....he went from being on top of the world after the win, took a trip to India...where by the way he behaved himself quite well...to come home to a massive storm of sm and and gossip show backlash and hate over something we now know he did absolutely nothing to derserve...his tried with quiet dignity during this time to go on with buisness as usual and took ALL the heat onto his own shoulders..(just my opinion..to protect Meryl)....and through all this his buisness life has forever changed...he gave up his career admittedly so he wouldn't feel like he was cheating on Meryl...thats alot for anyone to deal with...what's he doing now??? idk....but i think maybe he needs our understanding and support as much as if not more than Meryl doesI agree with you april...everyone always seems to be talking bad about Maks, but I don't really feel he has done anything to warrent that respons...I think they are both in a bit of a turmoil in their lives with all the changes they haved had and are yet to come...who knows maybe it could be the changes and struggles that bring them closer....
exactly...and let's face it sm stay's on pins and needles just waiting for him to put one foot wrong
And who defines "one foot wrong?" There is lies the conundrum!!! Great word, huh?!!
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annieahoy wrote:
JetmamaDiDi wrote:
april6263 wrote:
you know we talked about how Meryl is going through alot of life changes and needs time....but so is Maks....he went from being on top of the world after the win, took a trip to India...where by the way he behaved himself quite well...to come home to a massive storm of sm and and gossip show backlash and hate over something we now know he did absolutely nothing to derserve...his tried with quiet dignity during this time to go on with buisness as usual and took ALL the heat onto his own shoulders..(just my opinion..to protect Meryl)....and through all this his buisness life has forever changed...he gave up his career admittedly so he wouldn't feel like he was cheating on Meryl...thats alot for anyone to deal with...what's he doing now??? idk....but i think maybe he needs our understanding and support as much as if not more than Meryl does
No doubt he needs to find someone to talk to about whatever is going on with him--and them--to try to understand himself and the situation(s). Without working through his issues, he wil never find happiness or be able to be in a committed relationship, no matter what his "dream" is. Might be a bit of Peter Pan syndrome there.I volunteer to talk to him and won't charge him a dime. I promise not to become too emotional!
LOL---funny, Annie!!
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annieahoy wrote:
CEK40 wrote:
So here’s another one…..love what the woman next to Maks is wearing. Wow! Just wow! Strange outfit choice! Once again, evidential proof that having money does not equal having good taste.
I just don't know about that womans outfit and then from what I can see of her shoes...oh my!!!I don't like those gladiator shoes on anyone who is not six feet tall and weighs 100 lbs. Dig those sleeves, too. Dang! I so wish Joan Rivers were here to critique these outfits. I miss her! Maks is no doubt upset by her death since he had just recently met her, laughed like crazy when they were on Andy Cohen's show, and called her one of his new homies.
They must have told everyone to wear white! Personally, I'm hoping Romeo and Devin sleep together tonight!
LOL annie you are too funny LOL
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annieahoy wrote:
april6263 wrote:
JetmamaDiDi wrote:
Oh--I remember that now that you reposted it. At first I was trying to kinda take his side. Now I'm just not sure so will reserve judgement for a while. This is where I think the internet and SM really mess with people's lives. I still say that if he really wants his private or personal life to be private, he is not with this dame....or he wouldn't be in public with her. It just looks bad, tho....and angers his fans which is not a good thing. If he wants people to accuse him of stuff he says he is not, then he should act the part ALL the time!!! Rhetoric doesn't cut it if your actions are not consistent with the rhetoric. Then you are a hypocrite. I so do not want that to be who he is.you know we talked about how Meryl is going through alot of life changes and needs time....but so is Maks....he went from being on top of the world after the win, took a trip to India...where by the way he behaved himself quite well...to come home to a massive storm of sm and and gossip show backlash and hate over something we now know he did absolutely nothing to derserve...his tried with quiet dignity during this time to go on with buisness as usual and took ALL the heat onto his own shoulders..(just my opinion..to protect Meryl)....and through all this his buisness life has forever changed...he gave up his career admittedly so he wouldn't feel like he was cheating on Meryl...thats alot for anyone to deal with...what's he doing now??? idk....but i think maybe he needs our understanding and support as much as if not more than Meryl does
Yes, he quit DWTS because he couldn't feel the same as with Meryl, but he also mentioned that he has problems with his knees, ankles (or maybe he said feet) and a partially torn groin muscle that started with that tango stuff he did last summer (urged on by Karina). Remember, when he and Meryl were watching the first Tango, and he said, "Right there ! I pulled my groin." Of course we had no idea anything had happened at the time because he went right on dancing with no change of expression.
yeah i remember that...thats the thing he is so use to being the rock for everyone around him that sometimes it's easy for us to miss seeing it when he's the one needing the hand
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annieahoy wrote:
april6263 wrote:
JetmamaDiDi wrote:
Yep--and it's legal here for medical purposes, which is a crock!! Anyone can get a prescription--OR grow it!! Where my daughter lives is where all the hippies went to after Vietnam--and there is a lot of "growing" up there!!LOL..if you haven't watched the interview Shaun did with him and Peta you should watch it...she and Peta looked so ....ummm....flustered by him!!!LOL
I saw it! We need to tell Luv that she can't leave because she may have to bake some brownines for us!
YES!!! she has to make brownies for Tommy and Peta for premiere night!!!LOL
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CEK40 wrote:
april6263 wrote:
annieahoy wrote:
I'd like to talk to Peta too, because she knows Maks and I think she likes Meryl. I read that the reason Maks dumped Peta was, in his words, "I just wasn't feeling it anymore." This tells me that what he was feeling for Peta was infatuation, not love.
LOL...I do kind of like Peta ...LOL
I do to...
LOL...ok our guilty secret is out....lol...we really do like Peta!!LOL
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KeepOnSinging wrote:
I will probably check up on how things are going on this board in a few days, but I am going to step away for awhile. My reasons are identical to Tango's reasons. I do not for a minute believe that Maks is falling apart. And I can't say that he is reverting to his bad boy ways because I do not believe he was a bad boy any more than Val, or Derek or Mark or Tony is a bad boy. And I most defintiely do not believe, based on the evidence, that he is being disrespectful to Meryl and hurting her. The evidence based on a pattern of what they do when either of them is out of the country, is that MnM do communicate on a regular basis. That pattern continued today. I am confident that whether as a sweetheart or as an amazing friend, Meryl knew all about this trip before any of us did because MnM talked about it. People are telling him he needs to ask for forgiveness. Others are saying that he needs to crawl. I think his instagram picture of the writing on the wall and Lizzie's tweet all point to this. He is not doing anything wrong, and this includes the fact that he is not hurting Meryl. My opinion is so contrary to what is being said on this board that I feel it is best for me to take this break. I do not want to offend anyone. Even more I do not want to say something to someone that will hurt or wound them. We went from saying "LIsten to Maks" to questioning his very integrity in a matter of 24 to 36 hours.
It has taken me so long to write this, edit it and rewrite it that probably all the rest of you have logged off. Sweet dreams to all of you. Gabriele, I think of you and your son a lot as I am becoming acquainted with the 21 year old autistic son of a friend of mine. I spend time with him for several hours two days a week. He is a sweetheart and madly in love with Disney.
KOS, I think we ALL value your opinions -- I know I do. I desperately want you to be so right in everything you say. You are not offending us, I can assure you, and I often feel so good about it when people disagree with what I say because I hope they are right and I am wrong. We need everyone's opinion, trust me. I often spout off before I settle down because that is just my nature, and I need people like you to send me in another direction. So, please don't go.
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CEK40 wrote:
april6263 wrote:
CEK40 wrote:
Well said April...wish i knew how to start a hastag thing on twitter....i would get fans to send him #holdmyhand ...nothing else just #holdmyhand to show him some support....
I don't know that much about twitter or I would with you!!!
we need a tumblr!!!
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KeepOnSinging wrote:
I will probably check up on how things are going on this board in a few days, but I am going to step away for awhile. My reasons are identical to Tango's reasons. I do not for a minute believe that Maks is falling apart. And I can't say that he is reverting to his bad boy ways because I do not believe he was a bad boy any more than Val, or Derek or Mark or Tony is a bad boy. And I most defintiely do not believe, based on the evidence, that he is being disrespectful to Meryl and hurting her. The evidence based on a pattern of what they do when either of them is out of the country, is that MnM do communicate on a regular basis. That pattern continued today. I am confident that whether as a sweetheart or as an amazing friend, Meryl knew all about this trip before any of us did because MnM talked about it. People are telling him he needs to ask for forgiveness. Others are saying that he needs to crawl. I think his instagram picture of the writing on the wall and Lizzie's tweet all point to this. He is not doing anything wrong, and this includes the fact that he is not hurting Meryl. My opinion is so contrary to what is being said on this board that I feel it is best for me to take this break. I do not want to offend anyone. Even more I do not want to say something to someone that will hurt or wound them. We went from saying "LIsten to Maks" to questioning his very integrity in a matter of 24 to 36 hours.
It has taken me so long to write this, edit it and rewrite it that probably all the rest of you have logged off. Sweet dreams to all of you. Gabriele, I think of you and your son a lot as I am becoming acquainted with the 21 year old autistic son of a friend of mine. I spend time with him for several hours two days a week. He is a sweetheart and madly in love with Disney.
OH, KOS--thanks for posting that but I think we are just trying to figure out what is real. I really love to hear your perspective because you make so much sense--so please don't go (or at least DO come back). If we have dissed anyone, I don't think that is what we intended to do. I know that was never my intent. Please forgive me if I offended you.
Like you, I feel that MnM would have talked about this trip--and it was likely planned for a long time. I also do not think that the few photos that we've seen are horrific or even indicative of any "real" relationship with this bikini girl. I do HOPE and pray that you are correct and all is well with the world. I think it is safe to say that we ALL hope for that.