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annieahoy wrote:
CEK40 wrote:
So here’s another one…..love what the woman next to Maks is wearing. Wow! Just wow! Strange outfit choice! Once again, evidential proof that having money does not equal having good taste.
I just don't know about that womans outfit and then from what I can see of her shoes...oh my!!!I don't like those gladiator shoes on anyone who is not six feet tall and weighs 100 lbs. Dig those sleeves, too. Dang! I so wish Joan Rivers were here to critique these outfits. I miss her! Maks is no doubt upset by her death since he had just recently met her, laughed like crazy when they were on Andy Cohen's show, and called her one of his new homies.
They must have told everyone to wear white! Personally, I'm hoping Romeo and Devin sleep together tonight!
Oh---I am so blind! Just realized that is the barber shop jacket--not plain blue!! Just looks like much thinner stripes!!
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JetmamaDiDi wrote:
april6263 wrote:
CEK40 wrote:
Jet I think you are on to something here...I do believe that Maks has a huge problem with lack of confidence and he over compensates in other ways...I don't mean things that are bad but I think sometime he doesn't know what to do to make things right and he is always trying to fix something when he neglects to look at himself...and we have to remember Maks normal pattern...he tries to fix things and puts alot of pressure on himself and when it gets to much and the frustration builds he lashes out....Meryl figured that out in week six....and she gave us the answer....when he lashes out he needs to fall back on the friendship...
And TRUST in the friendship.... From Maks' point of view, I think trust means letting his vulnerability show.
yep and right now i don't think it's Meryl he's having the frustration with and is needing the support from to be able to show that vulnerable side too....it the fans on sm
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april6263 wrote:
annieahoy wrote:
april6263 wrote:
you know we talked about how Meryl is going through alot of life changes and needs time....but so is Maks....he went from being on top of the world after the win, took a trip to India...where by the way he behaved himself quite well...to come home to a massive storm of sm and and gossip show backlash and hate over something we now know he did absolutely nothing to derserve...his tried with quiet dignity during this time to go on with buisness as usual and took ALL the heat onto his own shoulders..(just my opinion..to protect Meryl)....and through all this his buisness life has forever changed...he gave up his career admittedly so he wouldn't feel like he was cheating on Meryl...thats alot for anyone to deal with...what's he doing now??? idk....but i think maybe he needs our understanding and support as much as if not more than Meryl doesYes, he quit DWTS because he couldn't feel the same as with Meryl, but he also mentioned that he has problems with his knees, ankles (or maybe he said feet) and a partially torn groin muscle that started with that tango stuff he did last summer (urged on by Karina). Remember, when he and Meryl were watching the first Tango, and he said, "Right there ! I pulled my groin." Of course we had no idea anything had happened at the time because he went right on dancing with no change of expression.
yeah i remember that...thats the thing he is so use to being the rock for everyone around him that sometimes it's easy for us to miss seeing it when he's the one needing the hand
You know, that is exactly right, April. And it is very hard to think that others can shore you up when you have been the one others have depended on your whole life. It is a cross to bear, really.
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Neenay wrote:
Thank you all for such warm welcomes! I'm not too savvy with this..and am unsure of how to respond so that it will read correctly....my posts are standing alone...should be more in conversation mode, but I don't know how to do it
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Don't worry. It took all of us a while to catch on. Others more tech savvy than I can help you with an avatar (picture) and other stuff.
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Neenay wrote:
Thank you all for such warm welcomes! I'm not too savvy with this..and am unsure of how to respond so that it will read correctly....my posts are standing alone...should be more in conversation mode, but I don't know how to do it
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Hit the quote button in the box you want to respond to. Then type your reply. You can mess around with it and it won't punish you!!! You have to push submit for it to post. Hit "go back" to clear it.
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annieahoy wrote:
JetmamaDiDi wrote:
april6263 wrote:
you know we talked about how Meryl is going through alot of life changes and needs time....but so is Maks....he went from being on top of the world after the win, took a trip to India...where by the way he behaved himself quite well...to come home to a massive storm of sm and and gossip show backlash and hate over something we now know he did absolutely nothing to derserve...his tried with quiet dignity during this time to go on with buisness as usual and took ALL the heat onto his own shoulders..(just my opinion..to protect Meryl)....and through all this his buisness life has forever changed...he gave up his career admittedly so he wouldn't feel like he was cheating on Meryl...thats alot for anyone to deal with...what's he doing now??? idk....but i think maybe he needs our understanding and support as much as if not more than Meryl does
No doubt he needs to find someone to talk to about whatever is going on with him--and them--to try to understand himself and the situation(s). Without working through his issues, he wil never find happiness or be able to be in a committed relationship, no matter what his "dream" is. Might be a bit of Peter Pan syndrome there.I volunteer to talk to him and won't charge him a dime. I promise not to become too emotional!
I'll volunteer to hold his hand....even when he is being a bone-head....he's OUR bone-head
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Neenay wrote:
Thanks CEK! Is it the "quote" button? (Im standing out
Ike a "sore thumb" here!! LOLOL!
Yep that is the one....don't feel bad...we have all been in that same boat... We are here to hel!!!
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april6263 wrote:
annieahoy wrote:
JetmamaDiDi wrote:
No doubt he needs to find someone to talk to about whatever is going on with him--and them--to try to understand himself and the situation(s). Without working through his issues, he wil never find happiness or be able to be in a committed relationship, no matter what his "dream" is. Might be a bit of Peter Pan syndrome there.I volunteer to talk to him and won't charge him a dime. I promise not to become too emotional!
I'll volunteer to hold his hand....even when he is being a bone-head....he's OUR bone-head
me too me too april......
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KeepOnSinging wrote:
I will probably check up on how things are going on this board in a few days, but I am going to step away for awhile. My reasons are identical to Tango's reasons. I do not for a minute believe that Maks is falling apart. And I can't say that he is reverting to his bad boy ways because I do not believe he was a bad boy any more than Val, or Derek or Mark or Tony is a bad boy. And I most defintiely do not believe, based on the evidence, that he is being disrespectful to Meryl and hurting her. The evidence based on a pattern of what they do when either of them is out of the country, is that MnM do communicate on a regular basis. That pattern continued today. I am confident that whether as a sweetheart or as an amazing friend, Meryl knew all about this trip before any of us did because MnM talked about it. People are telling him he needs to ask for forgiveness. Others are saying that he needs to crawl. I think his instagram picture of the writing on the wall and Lizzie's tweet all point to this. He is not doing anything wrong, and this includes the fact that he is not hurting Meryl. My opinion is so contrary to what is being said on this board that I feel it is best for me to take this break. I do not want to offend anyone. Even more I do not want to say something to someone that will hurt or wound them. We went from saying "LIsten to Maks" to questioning his very integrity in a matter of 24 to 36 hours.
It has taken me so long to write this, edit it and rewrite it that probably all the rest of you have logged off. Sweet dreams to all of you. Gabriele, I think of you and your son a lot as I am becoming acquainted with the 21 year old autistic son of a friend of mine. I spend time with him for several hours two days a week. He is a sweetheart and madly in love with Disney.KOS, I think we ALL value your opinions -- I know I do. I desperately want you to be so right in everything you say. You are not offending us, I can assure you, and I often feel so good about it when people disagree with what I say because I hope they are right and I am wrong. We need everyone's opinion, trust me. I often spout off before I settle down because that is just my nature, and I need people like you to send me in another direction. So, please don't go.
Please don't leave us, KOS. We also love your songs and stories about what you do.
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april6263 wrote:
annieahoy wrote:
april6263 wrote:
LOL..if you haven't watched the interview Shaun did with him and Peta you should watch it...she and Peta looked so ....ummm....flustered by him!!!LOLI saw it! We need to tell Luv that she can't leave because she may have to bake some brownines for us!
YES!!! she has to make brownies for Tommy and Peta for premiere night!!!LOL
Wow! That could be a wild dance!