Look at one of the replies to Janel's tweet.   I have to say I agree.

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I'm thinking that Val posted the tbt pic and she was like.......no thanks, too little, too late!!  Then she posts a tbt pic from iheart radio of her alone.....even though he was there with her.  Think it speaks volumes and not in a good way.

And at 4: in the morning...





You got that right, Val.... Ab-so-f***ing-lutely right!

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Two days later...today is January 11th...I do want to post an opinion.  
We often remind ourselves or are reminded by others that these are real people, living their real lives, and if they care to share via social media, then fans and followers get a little glimpse of what's going on in their lives. The media give us further information to be taken with a grain of salt.  Even interviews and photos can be misleading, taken out of context.  

But regarding the real lives of these particular two...I'm proud of Janel if she has refused to be simply that "notch" ...or the current until the "next".  These are Val's own words.  

His tweet that being good together doesn't mean they are good for each other. And her "dont be a bully" t-shirt selfie, after their cryptic twitter exchange in the early hours of the 9th, show that there are deep differences, divides, and feelings. 

So, yes, I am counting down the days until the 9th of February...DWTS livetour in San Diego, Balboa Theater....when she is (I hope contractually) committed to an appearance.  But I leave it up to Janel to know what she really feels, what she wants.  Val, the same of course.  Again on the 15th in LA, she is supposed to have a "cameo".  And if that is the last they ever see of each other, so be it.  Season 20 rehearsals begin 2 days later!

Thus, what I really wanted to say... I don't "ship" Janel and Val.

Shipping connotes a fantasy pairing as seen with the eyes of a dreamer.  I have never shipped them. Over their Season, I was simply watching a fun, young, appropriate pair "hit it off"... and then a loving relationship, beautiful physical compliment, and tender romance develop over the weeks...at the very, very least, an unbreakable and lasting bond of some kind. 

And I felt happy for the privilege of being “let in on it” 
And for the confirmation that sweet, sweet love - just waiting to be conceived by the union of two effusive hearts -  is anywhere, everywhere.
 
How something so “riveting” (Carrieann) could become something sooo hurtful to both of them so quickly is a mystery...


 
 

Luv,  my opinion,

I think they'd have to come way, way down on the "love/hate scale" from the love end of it...
And way, way up from the hate-hurt-jealous end of it 
before they'll be able to meet in the friendship zone.   And I mean both of them, from both ends.
And that will take a while....and happen only if additional meetings, interactions, conversations don't send the needle careening off in to intense feelings again. 

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